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Pick a social hostel
Some hostels are just a place to sleep. Others are built for connection. Look for spots with a lively common area, a bar, or group dinners that bring people together.
The vibe of where you stay makes a big difference, so choosing the right hostel can really set the tone for your trip.
You don’t need to be super outgoing. Just being around is usually enough for a conversation to start.
Join a tour
Tours are a simple way to meet people. Island hopping in Indonesia, cooking classes in Vietnam, temple tours in Thailand—pick something that sounds fun.
You’re with a group, doing the same thing. Talking happens naturally. You show up solo, leave with a few new contacts.
Hang out where people are
Grab a coffee in the kitchen, read by the pool, sit at the bar. These small choices put you in the path of others doing the same.
Someone might invite you to join their plans. Or you’ll overhear a group heading out and jump in. Doesn’t have to be a big deal. Often, it just flows.
Say yes to things
Someone going to a night market? Tag along.
Heard there’s a beach bonfire later? Worth checking out.
You don’t have to say yes to everything. But saying yes a little more often opens the door to new people and better stories.
Start the conversation
No need for clever lines. A simple “Where are you from?” or “How long have you been here?” is all it takes.
Everyone’s used to those openers. Most are waiting for someone else to say them first.
Use online spaces
Check the hostel’s WhatsApp chat. Join a local backpacker group on Facebook. These places are full of people looking for someone to grab food or join a tour with.
Even one message like, “Anyone up for a beer tonight?” usually gets a reply.
Take solo time when you want it
You don’t have to be social every day. Some days you’ll want to join the crew. Others, you’ll want to explore alone or do nothing at all.
That’s the nice thing about solo travel. You choose the pace.
Final thoughts
Solo travel isn’t about being alone the whole time. It’s about the freedom to meet people when you want to, and take time for yourself when you don’t.
Most of the time, it just takes showing up. A short hello. A shared meal. One yes. And suddenly, you’re not alone anymore.
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